Killer Year–The Class of 2007


BOUCHERCON: HOW NOT TO DO IT
October 9, 2006, 8:50 am
Filed under: Bouchercon, Killer Year Members, Marc Lecard

Once I volunteered to post something to the Killer Year blog this Monday (my first blog post ever), my mind immediately went blank and stayed that way for several days (this happens to me a lot). What on earth could I write about? Bouchercon 06, just ended, was the obvious topic. But what could I possibly say about the conference experience that hadn’t already been said better, a hundred times, in blogs and on websites across the internets?

Then it occurred to me that there can be real value in setting a terrible example. There are lessons that anyone can learn from my experiences as a hapless newb and raw first-time Bouchercon attendee. Somewhere there is someone with even less savvy and fewer social skills who might benefit from the following advice:

1. When you find yourself in the middle of hundreds of your fellow writers, many of whom you’ve been reading and enjoying for years, make sure you don’t talk to any of them.

2. If someone tries to talk to you, a good technique is to grimace, laugh, and walk away. They’re sure to understand that you are neither drunk nor insane, but merely overwhelmed by their presence. This will flatter them.

3. When you do talk to someone whose work you like, make sure you praise them effusively and excessively until they begin to suspect that you’re making fun of them. Then tell them you are only kidding and you haven’t read their books anyway. This will relieve them of the burden of gratitude.

4. Smoke a lot. Really a lot. This will not only help calm your nerves, but you will begin to smell like a walking campfire, reminding folks of summer camp, backpacking trips, recent arson experiences, and catastrophic fire damage. It also makes it easier to get a seat at panels, and seats for your coat and backpack as well.

5. Don’t go to your friends’ panels. It will only distract them. If by accident you should find yourself attending a panel by people you know, leave in the middle, being sure to make some noise and cause a disturbance, so they’ll know you’ve been there.

6. It’s really not a good idea to let someone know how much you liked their books; this will only embarass them. Instead tell them about all the things you didn’t like, all the things that could have been done better. Everyone enjoys a bracing critique. They are sure to think of you when writing their next novel, and may even base a character on you.

7. Don’t buy the next round. Alcohol is a curse; it only causes people to enjoy themselves. A much better plan is to buy a bottle of fortified wine and polish it off somewhere privately (a toilet stall in the men’s room is a good place), where you won’t disturb anyone.

8. Above all, even if you somehow manage to enjoy yourself, don’t show it. Instead mooch around with a depressed expression on your face, avoiding eye contact. People will notice, and feel better about themselves. They’ll think: “At least I’m having a better time than that suicidal little shit over there.”

9. When security finally shows up to escort you from the building, go quietly. You can always sneak in through the back door later. Security guards are often bored by their jobs and will enjoy the thrill of the chase.

10. Wait ’til next year.

Marc Lecard
Author of Vinnie’s Head
March 2007

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Marc,
You’ve just described my very first con experience. I went to a small 1 day con called Murder in Magic City last year. I was so completely mortified that I spent the entire morning trying to avoid eye contact, conversation, etc. I managed to say hello to Susan McBride, but not until I stumbled upon her in the bathroom, couldn’t face the book signing room, and generally made an ass of myself. The second half of the day went better; once I met Duane Swierczynski and he didn’t bite, I started getting more comfortable. Jim Born bit, but it ended up being fun.
I think we all get a pass our first time. Thanks for sharing this, it made me smile.

Comment by JT Ellison

Too funny Marc!

Another one I’ll add is: When you’ve met someone and talked to them at length, promptly forget all about it. That way, when you see them the next day, you can experience it all over again for the first time and still enjoy it. As long as you’re okay with the other person thinking you’re a nut.

Comment by Sandra Ruttan

Marc was my impromptu date for the Anthony Awards. His steely, man-of-few-words demeanor reminded me of James Bond. He was an intriguing counterpoint to Rob and Brett, who needed hosing down.

Comment by Phil Hawley

That Rob-and-Brett-needing-hosing-down image is going to haunt me all day long.

Comment by Bill Cameron

Haunt you? I still can’t get all my clothes dry!

Great post, Marc. Laughed my backside off. Like JT, this was very similar to my first experience…Bouchercon in Chicago last year. Good stuff!

Comment by Brett Battles

Hosing down? Hosing down? We were simply having a carefree time, Phil. Nothing wrong with that, right Brett? And honestly, the only time we REALLY needed hosing down was outside the hotel when we were all standing around and there was that… well, nevermind.

Marc, hilarious post. Makes me think I’m going to LOVE Vinnie’s Head.

Wait a minute — does that sound how I think it sounds? Yikes.

Comment by Rob Gregory Browne

Terrific post, Marc. And man, did this ever describe my first con experience as well.

Comment by toni mcgee causey

Marc, I was wondering why you grimaced and skulked away after we spoke…

And J.T: I’m glad I put you at ease. This surprises me, because I was pretty much petrified myself.

Comment by Duane Swierczynski

I think you should blog more often. This was great!
And since my first conference is next year, I’m going to print it out and save it–and then probably go ahead and make every single mistake anyway.

Comment by patry




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